The Date Night Beauty Routine That Makes You Feel Hot Again After 40

This easy date night beauty routine will have you looking up-leveled and glowing in no time. 

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Date nights don’t come around for us often. Between work, kids, activities, and the chaos of everyday life, we’ve all fallen into the ‘staying home’ routine.

Or, if you’re really like me, your big night out is a romantic stroll through the aisles of Costco (yes, those free samples do count as appetizers). But when the stars align, and it’s time to trade yoga pants for actual pants, I love taking the time to get ready properly.

Here’s the reality: date nights usually come at the end of a long day, and who has time for a 12-step beauty routine? If you do, check out my 24-Hour Glow-Up Guide for special occasions.

 I need fast, easy, and just different enough from my everyday look to feel special. So, here are my go-to tips for effortless, attainable glam that can be done in 30 minutes or less. 

Skincare Prep: Good Skin = Great Glow

Radiant makeup starts with a solid skincare base.  You can’t cheat great skin, but you can fake a glow with this quick skincare routine.

Here’s how:

• Use a hydrating cleanser to start fresh. Don’t add makeup on top of existing makeup. This helps remove dead skin cells and preps your face so your makeup goes on smooth. 
• Follow with a hyaluronic acid-based serum and a lightweight moisturizer that makes your skin feel plump and bouncy.
• Mix a drop of liquid highlighter or glow drops into your moisturizer for that lit-from-within effect.
• A smoothing or hydrating primer goes on last to blur pores and give you a silky base for makeup. Give your skincare and primer a few minutes to settle while you start doing your hair.
• Use a gentle lip scrub to get rid of any dry skin on the lips.

Pro Tip: Keep a couple of chilled eye patches in the fridge. Pop them on while you’re prepping the rest of your date night beauty routine. They instantly depuff tired eyes and make you feel a little bougie.

Favorites (links): Hydrating Cleanser | Hyaluronic-Acid Serum | Moisturizer | Liquid Highlight | Primer | Lip Scrub | Eye Patches

Quick Hair Refresh

Hair can make or break the whole look, but nobody has time for a full blowout. Try this for an easy date night hairstyle:

• Start with dry shampoo at the roots, but don’t just spray and leave it. Let it sit for a minute, then massage it with your fingertips for extra lift.
• Work in a volumizing spray or texturizing spray if your hair is looking flat.
• Grab a curling iron for quick, soft waves. Make it quick. Curl a few sections around your face, then leave the ends straight for a modern look. I like using a dry heat-protectant spray instead of a heat-protectant cream to protect the hair. 
• Bonus Tip: Jumbo velcro rollers are your secret weapon. Toss a few in while you do your makeup to add bounce and volume. It kind of gives that 90’s blowout look.
• Finish with a soft hairspray to make it last.

Favorites (links): Dry Shampoo | Texturizing Spray | Curling Iron | Velcro Rollers | Hair Spray

The Makeup Look: Easy Glam

When it comes to date night, I like my makeup to feel a little more “wow” than my usual everyday routine. Honestly, I’ll sit there staring at my makeup stash thinking, I should really use more of this! 

So, I do.

This is the time to break out that sparkly shadow I’ve been holding onto, go for a soft cat-eye, and maybe even pop on some lashes for extra drama. It’s about having fun and feeling a little more glam (especially since date nights are few and far between). 

For date night beauty:

• Get a soft matte look with a good foundation. I love Armani or Lancome.
• Apply an eyeshadow primer to make your color last all night without creasing.
• Use a neutral shimmer shadow across your lids for a soft glow.
• Create a soft wing with a brown or black pencil liner. Smudge it with a brush so it doesn’t look harsh.
• Use a pencil brush to sweep a little eyeshadow (or bronzer) on the lower lash line to tie it all together.
• Skip the heavy contour and focus on a cream blush for a natural glow.  Dab it on your cheeks, and blend a little onto your lids if you’re feeling fancy.
• Use a neutral bronzer to warm up the face and double as eyeshadow too!
• Lashes make everything better. Swipe on a few coats of volumizing mascara, or pop on some half-strip lashes for an easy lift. 
• Finish with a bold lipstick if you want to stand out, or go with a hydrating lip balm with a lip liner for a more natural look.  This Revlon lip liner stays on for hours – it’s my all time favorite. And, it’s not drying!
• A little highlighter on the high points will enhance your overall look. Sweep it on the high points of your face including cheekbones, brown bones, and the top of the nose. 

Favorites (links): Foundation | Eyeshadow Primer | Bronzer | Eyeshadow | Eye Pencil | Cream Blush | Mascara | Lip Liner | Highlight

The Extras That Make It Special

The little things help me feel ready for a night out. These things will make you feel pulled together:

• A spritz of your favorite perfume changes the entire mood. Trust me, the scent sets the tone.
• If you have time, press-on nails are a must. Seriously, in 10 minutes, you look like you just came from the nail salon. If you’re short on time, a quick sweep of a clear top coat can make your manicure look more polished. 
• Don’t overthink the outfit. A blouse that makes you feel good, and earrings can elevate even your favorite jeans.
• Here’s my secret: body shimmer (just use your highlight or a illuminating lotion). A little swipe on your collarbone or shoulders gives your skin a subtle glow that catches the light in the best way.

Enjoy The Night

Date nights don’t come around often, so when they do, it’s worth making a little effort without overcomplicating things. With these easy date night beauty tips, you’ll look and feel great without spending forever getting ready.

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